Middle-aged women who are chronically short of love can’t get rid of these characteristics

2022-05-05 0 By

“What is life without love?It is night without dawn.”Although in real life, a lack of love, his life is not such an exaggeration, but compared to those who are nourished by love, there will be a clear characteristic.In the TV series “Little Joy”, in addition to the family life of Fangyuan and Tong Wenjie, the most eye-catching is probably single mother Song Qian.Song Qian is a divorced middle-aged woman, but also a single mother.After the divorce, she did not choose to remarry, but put all her thoughts on her daughter, hoping that the woman can live in her own way.Although Song Qian has a good career, her daughter’s achievements are also good, but can not admit that her life is lack of love.Because of this, she spends all her energy on her daughter, and eventually becomes grumpy and overly “controlling.”Thus, a middle-aged woman, if the long-term lack of love, there will be some changes in life.Generally speaking, the middle-aged woman who lacks love for a long time, these characteristics cannot get rid of.01 Life is simple, often live step by step.A lack of love of a woman, a long time, also used to such a life, used to a person alone.Life without any emotional waves, naturally also less a lot of freshness and passion, slowly, the heart is no longer any expectations.Just like Song Qian, after divorce, alone with her daughter, in addition to normal work, the rest of the time is basically spent in her daughter’s life.In addition, she did not have many hobbies, and even did not have her own personal life. She put all her hopes on her daughter’s life.Such a life, is undoubtedly simple, but also lack of freshness.Although no woman wants her life to be so monotonous and poor, she has to face it in the end.Generally speaking, a long-term lack of love of middle-aged women, they will not toss about because of emotional things.Their lives are generally monotonous and orderly.For the future, there does not seem to be too much hope, the biggest hope, perhaps, is that they can be so calm, stable life.When you are alone, you will feel lonely and lonely.Recently in the TV series “This life has you”, Li Xiaoran and Zhong Hanliang played Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng, a few years ago because of a misunderstanding let two people reluctantly break up.After the breakup, Tan Jing raised the child, although there is another man’s company, but there is no love between them, but in partnership.There is no doubt that love is lacking in quiet life.After coming off work, talk static busy finished all things, always used to take out the goods before to recall, to fill at the moment lonely and lonely oneself.No matter because of lack of love, or can not put the feelings once, for a middle-aged woman, such life is very lonely, very lonely.The older I get, the more lonely I feel.Although they pretend to be normal in front of outsiders, the loneliness will soon come to mind when they are alone.03 personality is more sensitive, easy to daydream.Middle-aged women who lack love for a long time, accustomed to a personal life, encounter what things, they generally can only go alone to face and solve.If there are some worries, no one can tell, can only digest alone in silence.Women used to such a life, also used to self-regulation of their own emotions.No matter in the happy time, or in the sad sad time, there is no one to accompany.As time passes, the character will become more and more sensitive and stronger.We often say that the more a person lacks, the easier it is to become sensitive to what he lacks.For example, some people do not have good material conditions. As long as they encounter things about material things, their hearts will be frustrated, and even hurt their self-esteem.For a woman who lacks love, as long as there is a topic about love, they are easy to become sensitive, and even secretly sad.Most of the time, they yearn for a love relationship, but in real life, they have to stay awake and continue their existing life.Sometimes they fantasize, but they just have to get used to it.”Every man needs someone to talk openly with,” Hemingway said.Heroic as a man may be, he may also be lonely.”Middle-aged women also feel this way when they lack love.They want someone to talk to, someone to share their emotions with, someone to be there for them.But love is not so easy to meet, if not, you can only accept the fact.In life, although not willing to admit, but also can not change these facts.The longer the lack of love goes on, the more these characteristics become obvious and inescapable.Alone, though they may act strong and independent.But in their hearts, they will still yearn for love, longing for someone who can give them the warmth and hope of love.When you meet such a woman, you must understand their heart and treat them with the most sincere attitude.If you do not love, please leave as soon as possible;If deep love, please cherish.Middle-aged women can’t afford to waste their time and feelings.